Tips from the Field

3 Ways to Make your Friend Look Good in Front of Girls by acting like a Jackass

Sabotaging yourself is an advanced Maneuver - see the Kamikaze - but it's a grea way to shake things up.The Drunk - Your friend purchases you way too much alcohol, you lose control. Pointman is in control, looks responsible yet accepting by comparison. This can usually only be done once/night though, so don’t do it early.

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As Wingman - Think of yourself as the "Point Guard"

Avery Johnson - Art of the Wingman

Lead as a point guard would lead. Drive fearlessly, but always look to pass first.Let’s say the girl your friend wants is the basket.Your job is to penetrate the party, and drive to the basket. You don’t score for yourself though; you then draw all the competition and distractions away from her. When she’s finally clear, you pass the ball to your friend for an easy slam dunk.You might spend more time assisting, but you’ll end up as the MVP.Oh and don’t worry all great Point Guards end up scoring a few times.

4 Hidden Ways to Prevent a Hangover

If you want to ensure both Wingman and Pointman wake up feeling good, avoid alcohol as much as possible.But sometimes this does not happen. So here are a few rule of thumbs to make sure in the morning your head end doesn't feel like Ray Lewis just caught it in bed with his wife.1) Stick to the Clears - Vodka, Light Rum, Gin and Triple Sec.

The Right Way and the Wrong Way a Wingman Should Compliment his Pointman

You want to talk your pointman up, but subtlety is the name of the game. Remember – your friend has strengths, but he’s not a “one trick pony.” Hint at his Layers of Quality and the woman will “Sniff out the Rest.”Here's a few examples of how to convey good qualities about your Pointman without going overboard.*********He's AthleticWrong way to say this: "He has 4% body fat."What the Girl thinks: "Wow!

Top Eight Types of Bad Wingmen

Not all Wingmen are effective, and not all wingmen are "going to be there for you" when push comes to shove.If you are a Wingman - eliminate these personality traits from your repertoire. Note how all of these traits somehow stem from an underlying selfishness.Top Eight Types of Bad Wingmen

Tip from the Field - "Realize that as a Wingman You Can't Fail"

Wingman Tip from the FieldRealize that as a Wingman - You Can't Fail

I actually have a fair amount of Social Anxiety. But as a Wingman, my a** is not on the line. So when I act as a Wingman, I  find it easy to roll through parties and fearlessly talk to everyone. I don’t even care if I look like an idiot; it might make my Pointman look good.

"Al" - From San Diego

 

Tip to get seen by Women - Find the "Focal Point" of the Party

 At most venues, there will be a popular area, hot spot or focal point that gets your Pointman noticed. Find that place and put him there.At a Club/BarIn a club or a bar, the focal point is the VIP sections. That costs money, and unless you're  a Russian Gangster, it might not be an option. So find an area that keeps you visible and makes you look like you own the place.Go to the balcony or a second level where you can look down on the people below and initiate eye contact with a girl.