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If you want to ensure both Wingman and Pointman wake up feeling good, avoid alcohol as much as possible.But sometimes this does not happen. So here are a few rule of thumbs to make sure in the morning your head end doesn't feel like Ray Lewis just caught it in bed with his wife.1) Stick to the Clears - Vodka, Light Rum, Gin and Triple Sec.

 "I was acting as a Wingman for a friend from Latvia. I was direct and told girls he was from Latvia. They looked at him like he was Borat.""Then I went subtle and said "He's a traveler.

You want to talk your pointman up, but subtlety is the name of the game. Remember – your friend has strengths, but he’s not a “one trick pony.” Hint at his Layers of Quality and the woman will “Sniff out the Rest.”Here's a few examples of how to convey good qualities about your Pointman without going overboard.*********He's AthleticWrong way to say this: "He has 4% body fat."What the Girl thinks: "Wow!

You want to be a Wingwoman? The cards are in your favor. So much so that there is a ~$100/hour industry centered around it.

There is no more powerful social proof than having a Wingwoman.If you are a woman - you can lend your power to a lucky Pointman.If you’re a female and have a Brother, legitimate friend, or whatever…be a Wingwoman for the night.Talk to everyone, focus on the single girls, and then say “You have to meet my friend Joey!” Bring a girl over, have her meet Joey, keep the conversation going by occasionally informing the girl why Joey is perfect to fit her needs.Few things are more credible than a man’s referral from a woman.Bad boys don't have (true) female friends.

Your pointman comes up to you, says "I like that girl." You see her, and she looks like Nicole Kidman. She's sitting at the end of the bar by herself. No boyfriend, no wedding ring, just her and a Martini.This is a rare, odd situation. Dudes love going to bars by themselves, girls hate it.

As a Wingman, your Pointman might tell you he has "no assets."No talents, nothing going for him and nothing for you to emphasize to the girl he likes.As a Wingman you must see through this and realize your Pointman has at least one talent that will separate him from the pack. Whatever his strength is, it's the Wingman's job to find it.And if you can't find anything, read the list below and think again. Top Three Dudes with Only One  Talent (or Less) who Used it to Break Hearts at a Ridiculous Level 

Not all Wingmen are effective, and not all wingmen are "going to be there for you" when push comes to shove.If you are a Wingman - eliminate these personality traits from your repertoire. Note how all of these traits somehow stem from an underlying selfishness.Top Eight Types of Bad Wingmen

Wingman Tip from the FieldRealize that as a Wingman - You Can't Fail

I actually have a fair amount of Social Anxiety. But as a Wingman, my a** is not on the line. So when I act as a Wingman, I  find it easy to roll through parties and fearlessly talk to everyone. I don’t even care if I look like an idiot; it might make my Pointman look good.

"Al" - From San Diego

 At most venues, there will be a popular area, hot spot or focal point that gets your Pointman noticed. Find that place and put him there.At a Club/BarIn a club or a bar, the focal point is the VIP sections. That costs money, and unless you're  a Russian Gangster, it might not be an option. So find an area that keeps you visible and makes you look like you own the place.Go to the balcony or a second level where you can look down on the people below and initiate eye contact with a girl.